The Ultimate Packing List for Traveling with Young Children
I have looked in a suitcase with no clothes in it, more times than I can count, especially when I am heading out late at night at 2 AM, before heading out on vacation. The panic sets in. Have I taken the reflux medicine with me? In case the airline does not find the case and we don’t have diapers? Will the baby be sleeping on a plastic crib?
Taking young kids on a trip alters the definition of essential! The cute outfit and stack of board books isn’t required. You need survival equipment! You need a system that will keep you mobile and clean.
This packing list is for those items that will help to move your trip forward – the Must-Haves! I have divided gear into three categories: Carry-On (for survival), Personal Item (for entertainment) and Checked (bulk). This way, you won’t have to deal with delays without breaking your back.
The Modular Packing System
Don’t put all in one large bag. You should have access to certain things as soon as you arrive at the security line or gas station bathroom.
- Carry-On Bag: Includes supplies you’ll need if you don’t have your checked bag. Clothing, nappies, medication, and food.
- Personal Item (Backpack): Entertainment, electronics and valuables.
- Checked Luggage: Bulky items such as additional clothes (for second half of trip), strollers, diapers and wipes.
This division is to safeguard you. With less clothes and medicine, you have an alternative airline that has lost your bags.
Documents and Health Essentials
This is the “no go” area. Without these, is the journey unstarted!
- Passports: Make sure they are up to date. Must be good for a minimum of 6 months following your return date.
- Consent Letters: If one parent is traveling by himself or herself, it is important to have a signed and notarized letter of consent from the other parent. This will help avoid problems at immigration.
- Travel Insurance Card: Have one in your wallet and one on your phone.
- Pediatrician Contact Info: Write down details of the pediatrician’s contact information. Phones die.
- Prescription Meds: Store in their containers.
Medication Kit
Make a small kit which will fit into a quart-size bag. Add a liquid acetaminophen or ibuprofen. They are faster acting and can be taken in liquid form which doesn’t need water to swallow. Include a thermometer, band aids, antiseptic wipes and any allergy drugs such as Benadryl. Keep the inhaler and/or EpiPen on your person, not the overhead bin, if your child has one.
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The Diapering and Hygiene Strategy
Diapers take up space. Packing two weeks supply is not encouraged.
- For the Flight/Drive: Pack 1 diaper for every hour of flight/driving plus 3 extras! For a 5 hour flight bring 8 diapers. Blowouts happen. Turbulence happens. You don’t want to run out.
- For the Destination: Buy the bulk supply when you arrive. Diaper and wipes are offered worldwide. This will allow you to have more space for souvenirs or winter coats.
Hygiene Kit
- Wipes: Bring a small pack in your carry-on and the large pack in your checked bags.
- Hand Sanitizer: TSA will permit liquids of more than 3.4 ounces that are hand sanitizer, but don’t go overboard.
- Disposable Changing Pads: Public restrooms can be dirty. These pads will give a clean barrier.
- Ziploc Bags: Take two large gallon-size bags of Ziploc bags. Soiled clothes or wet swimsuits are kept inside until they can be washed in a washing machine.
Clothing Quantities by Trip Duration
Parents tend to over pack clothes. Children get themselves into a mess or get into puddles within minutes of landing. Pack for the worst case but, prepare to do laundry.
Table: Clothing Quantities Guide
| Category | Short Trip (3–4 Days) | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| Tops (T-Shirts) | 4–5 | Layering is best |
| Bottoms (Pants/Shorts) | 3–4 | Joggers are difficult to dry; pack bikers and short pants |
| Sleepwear | 2 | Avoid familiar smells to aid sleep |
| Underwear/Socks | Daily + 2 | Additional socks for cold flights |
| Outerwear | 1 | Packable rain jacket/fleece |
| Category | Long Trip (7+ Days) | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| Tops (T-Shirts) | 7 | Layering is best |
| Bottoms (Pants/Shorts) | 5–6 | Joggers are difficult to dry; pack bikers and short pants |
| Sleepwear | 3–4 | Avoid familiar smells to aid sleep |
| Underwear/Socks | Daily + 3 | Additional socks for cold flights |
| Outerwear | 1 | Packable rain jacket/fleece |
Pro Tip: Fold clothes or roll. It saves space and helps to minimize wrinkles. Stuff a laundry detergent sheet into a bag to be able to wash an entire sink of socks and underwear in the hotel.
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Sleep and Comfort Gear
Bored and cranky toddler is an ordeal! Maintain their sleeping schedule.
- Portable Sound Machine: Hotel walls are thin. A white noise machine with battery works to drown out noise in the hallways and strange noises from the city.
- Blackout Blinds: Most hotels will have blackout curtains, but there will be some that have gaps. Have a portable blackout solution. Use suction cups or self-adhesive strips.
- Lovey or Blanket: To bring their item that they sleep with. Avoid washing immediately prior to departure. Comfort is to be found in the smell of home.
- Travel Crib: If you don’t feel comfortable in the hotel crib, pack a small travel crib. There are many brands with weights below 10 pounds, that can fit in a suitcase.
Feeding and TSA Rules
Food feeding is stressful for the child when in transit. There’s an awful lot of TSA rules to deal with, let alone hungry bellies.
Liquids Rule Exemption
Parents can bring breast milk, infant formula and baby food in amounts over 3.4 ounces when participating in TSA. Put the bags into the scanner, and say you have these items before you put the bags in the scanner. They will test the liquid, but will not make you discard it.
Feeding Kit
- Snacks: Make extras of what you think you need. If they’re delayed, it extends a two-hour flight to six hours. Go for non-sweets that don’t get the mess such as Cheerios, cheese sticks or fruit leather.
- Sippy Cups: Bring two. 1 for water, 1 for milk. Valves that are leak-proof are required.
- Utensils: A bib and a spoon. Make sure to pack toddler utensils, the airline won’t provide them.
- Lollipops: Keep these to use at take-off and landing. The sucking action of the straw helps to equalize ear pressure and to alleviate pain when changing altitudes.
Entertainment: Digital and Analog
Screens are fine. I use them. However, batteries lose their life and tablets are thrown away. Have a backup plan.
Digital Entertainment
Preload movies and TV shows to the device before heading out of the house. There is a weak Wi-Fi signal in the airport. Carry child-safe headphones (with volume control). Take a charging brick and extra-long cable. Gates are usually the location of outlets which are in high demand.
Analog Entertainment
- Stickers: Sticker books will help to keep children busy for 20 minutes each.
- Window Gel Clings: These can adhere to plane windows without causing any mess. Once you have landed, peel them off.
- Coloring: Crayola “Color Wonder” markers will only color on special paper. They don’t have the ability to mark up the airplane seat that is in front of you.
- Play-Doh: Fun, but can get messy. Do not open bag for use.
Gear: Bring, Rent, or Buy
Working long hours with heavy equipment makes you tired. Make the real decision as to what you actually need.
Strollers
When travelling to a city, use a light stroller. It may be gate-checked at the aircraft door. If you are traveling to a beach resort, you can rent a jogger from the local company. Protects your pretty stroller from salt and sand.
Car Seats
The FAA advises using a car seat on board their airplane; however, it is not mandatory. If you did purchase a seat for your child, have a FAA-approved car seat. If the child is a lap child, inspect the car seat at the ticket booth. Use a padded car seat bag to protect it from damage.
Baby Carriers
A soft structured carrier is priceless. It comes in handy in the airport to get your hands free from pushing a stroller and lets you walk up steps or the cobblestone streets when a stroller cannot.
Local Considerations and Destination Needs
Find out about your destination before you zip the bag.
Water Quality
Any foreign trips or visits to countries or regions where tap water may be of uncertain quality, must have bottled water available for both formula preparation and toothbrushing. Use a reusable water bottle with water filter.
Voltage and Plugs
If traveling overseas, verify the voltage. Breast pump or bottle warmer may burn out without a converter. Carry a multi-plug adapter.
Pharmacy Access
Look up the name of the pharmacy before you go to see if there is one around you or if it is a chemist. Be familiar with the local term for a pharmacy/drug store. For instance, in certain countries it’s not possible to purchase ibuprofen at a supermarket – only at a pharmacy.
Common Packing Mistakes to Avoid
Mistake 1: Packing New Shoes
Do not put brand new shoes in for traveling. Blisters spoil a holiday! Rub them in at home for a week, first.
Mistake 2: Checking Essential Medicine
Don’t place prescription drugs in checked bags. If the bag heads to Tokyo, you head to London, you’re going to be in trouble.
Mistake 3: Too Many Toys
Children play with the same toy for 5 minutes. Don’t stuff ALL the toy chest. Pack 3 small items – purchase an unexpected toy if necessary at the airport.
Mistake 4: Forgetting a Trash Bag
Have a small bag of groceries in purse for trash. Apples go bad quickly in a car or airplane.
Crisis Management: What If Something Goes Wrong?
Get ready for the worst!
- Lost Luggage: Keep one full outfit for each person in the carry-on. Should your bags be lost you can sleep in your own clothes, brush your teeth while you wait for delivery.
- Illness: Bring along a small oral rehydration solution packet such as Pedialyte. When it comes to the stomach bugs, it’s all about water.
- Separation: Each day get a picture of your child in the morning using the phone. When in a crowd, having a current photo of what they are wearing helps if you get separated.
FAQs
What should be the number of diapers I must have during a flight?
Plan for one change of clothing per hour of trip plus extra three. For five-hour flights, 8 diapers will be required. This includes delays and blowouts.
Will baby formula be permitted at airport security?
Yes. Baby formula, breast milk and juice are exempt from the 3.4-ounce liquid rule for TSA. If you are having to scan your bags, let the officer know beforehand.
Should toddlers be charged a fare?
On domestic flights children under the age of 2 may travel free or for a small charge, as a lap child. They must have their own ticket and seat after the age of 2.
How to help your toddlers with ear pressure on planes?
Swallowing helps. Offer a bottle, breastfeed or provide a lollipop when taking off and landing. Do not use decongestants unless prescribed by your child’s doctor.
Do I need to bring my own or hire a stroller?
If necessary, take an umbrella stroller (lightweight) to the airport. To save space and hassle, rent one of the heavier joggers or double strollers at your destination.
What is the best way to sterilize the bottles in a hotel room?
Take microwave steam bags or bottle sanitizing tablets. If you have a coffee maker or kettle, you may also use boiling water.
What if my child cries on the plane?
It happens. Stay calm. Say sorry to neighbors but concentrate on your child. If the seat belt sign is not on, walk the aisle. The majority of passengers are parents and understand.
Conclusion
It’s like a military operation to pack for young children. It takes planning and organization. However, if you are not looking for cute clothes but comfort, you’ll be in good shape sticking to the modular system. Diapers and snacks are always available at their destination. There’s no such thing as buying peace of mind. First pack the meds, the paperwork and the favorite blanket. It’s just the details that are left out. Safe travels.